It’s a standard bit of relationship advice to not go into one thinking you’re going to change the person.
It’s very difficult for people to change, the wisdom goes, and when they do, it’s generally a deeply personal thing that comes from within, and not from others.
And yet, despite the fact that we know this, we still can’t help but privately harp on the things we wish we would shift about those we’re with.
Just check out what these anonymous contributors would change about their partners if they had the chance.
10. Standing up
Why are they like that?
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9. Stubbornness
It can be a benefit at times, but man can it also cause problems.
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8. The drive
Being incompatible in this area can be a real problem.
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7. The butt
Ah yes, stay classy fellas.
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6. Independance
You gotta be able to strike out on your own.
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5. Location, location
Long distance relationships are near impossible to maintain.
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4. Farting
Well that’s interesting.
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3. Affection
Everybody wants to feel wanted.
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2. Understanding
Not feeling understood can make the whole problem even more isolating.
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1. Finances
I feel like he’d be very unhappy to know this.
Source: Whisper
At the end of the day, if we can’t stand being with someone without them changing, we shouldn’t be with them, and if we can look past it, then we’re probably in good shape.
Has a partner ever tried to change you? Do you feel like it was warranted?
Tell us in the comments.