There are many ways we can imagine our lives going when we’re young, but I’m not sure that any of us dream about one day being pregnant with a baby that belongs to a married man.

That said, life can take some interesting turns and listen. We’re not here to judge, ok?

If you’re curious what this path feels like, or what kinds of emotions these pregnant people experience, these 11 folks are willing to share!

11. Cut him off and give the baby up for adoption?

Just a couple of options I think would work.

10. Never believe them that they’re getting a divorce.

It’s a lot easier to say it than to get that piece of paper.

9. This sounds like a Lifetime movie.

Get me some popcorn and let me know how this turns out.

8. I have more questions.

I suppose maybe she just wanted a baby?

7. I’d have some choice words for him.

The first of which would be “you don’t get a say, sir.”

6. Two families that will never be the same.

At least the baby is free of the drama.

5. This sounds more complicated than it needs to be.

I would have some more questions for him for sure.

4. I would venture to say this is true across the board.

If it’s not true for you, you’re the exception and not the rule.

3. Oooh he was taking his life in his hands dropping that on a pregnant lady.

I wonder if he’s still alive.

2. Be more careful, folks.

And people who GET pregnant, take your own precautions.

1. Information that definitely would have been relevant prior to the sexytimes.

What is wrong with me, yall?

Wow. Some of these weren’t what I expected at all.

If you or someone you know has had this firsthand experience, let us know in the comments what it was like for you!