Real talk… how exactly are you supposed to respond when the person you thought you’d spend the rest of your life with… tells you that they’re a different gender?

Sure, it’s brave of them to come out. Bravo. Live your truth fam. But that doesn’t mean it won’t completely destroy a spouse in the process.

These 11 confessions are from both sides of the situation. They’re raw, revealing and true.

1. Wow. You’re kind of a piece of sh^t.

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2. No doubt!

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3. That’s so tough.

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4. Time to break it off…

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5. Not surprising. Do what’s best for you!

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6. You’re gonna have to deal with it. This isn’t easy for her.

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7. Completely understandable!

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8. Not shocking at all…

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9. Communicate! Now more than ever!

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10. That’s really her business, though, right?

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11. Such a tough situation…

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Have a tale to share about transitioning? Did your spouse or significant other go through this?

Let us know in the comments!